Friday, 2 February 2018

Our Heartbeat...

Waking up to the smile of pure bliss, and to the scent of milk and sweet breath. These are some of the many precious moments that Baby ZY has given us since he arrived. Alhamdhulilah.

As I write this, I only have gratitude for Allah’s (S.W.T) plans in every detail that HE has written for us.

Just about say eight months ago, my mornings were carefree, rushed, and at times, lazy.
Now, our mornings have donned a new meaning.

I don’t really have an eye on the clock anymore, all because this little human has a way of stopping me right in my tracks.

Like today. With his little hands clutched around my neck ever so tightly, sensing that I was about to leave for work with my bag over my shoulder... had me in tears as I walked out of the door.

I thank Allah for this and for many more melting moments like these.

To all the Working Mums and Stay-At-Home Mums, let’s embrace every moment that our children present us with…from the smiles, to the snot, to the sleepless nights. 

I've had the opportunity to experience what it would have been like to be a SAHM over my extended leave (on top of the mandatory four months of maternity leave we are given here).

And I'm now experiencing what it’s like to be a Working Mum. It’s sweet now, cuddling up to soulful eyes looking down on me and touching my face…but this sweetness came after some months of a storm of post-natal blues for me. (will share on them in another post soon, In-Shaa-Allah)

So, my dear Sisters, only Allah can make our days and nights easier. HE hears every prayer, every whisper of dzikir we are making. Let’s keep loving our children.

Monday, 27 February 2017

Beautiful Beginnings

Salaam everyone.

Yes, it's been really very long, and I must say that the hiatus was deliberate.

SubhanAllah, Allah (S.W.T) has been really merciful in many ways and have answered our duas after years of patience. HE truly has HIS own ways and time.

We are expecting, Alhamdhulilah.

Therefore, we needed to take time to reflect, be thankful with every new development with our little one, our precious blessing, and prepare ourselves for this new journey of parenthood.

I hope to take a longer break from this space, and spend more time with myself and us. And of course, I hope to share some of my most memorable moments and learning points throughout our pregnancy in time to come, In-Shaa-Allah.

The reads which keep me busy and awake on most nights, Masha-Allah.
Please keep us in your duas.

JazakAllahu Khair.

Friday, 14 October 2016

Beautiful... In Every Sense

I am writing up this post for a dear, childhood friend - Rathai, at Apsaras Fashions.

Last Eid, my shopping spree for sarees was made really easier. And rather than using the word easier, I would like so say it was made more comfortable, cosier and so much happier.

Much thanks to my friend, Rathai, who is now a new online business owner, at Apsaras Fashions. She is jointly running the business at home, with her very sweet younger Sister, Mythili.

Also a new Mom to a gorgeous Baby Boy, Rathai is now enjoying the new momentum as a Mum-preneur, and I am quietly proud of my friend. All her sarees above are my personal favourites from the selection that I went home with this last Eid. In-laws were all smiles with these, of course, as well as some friends I got them for (the ones with peacock print! I cldn't get them for Mum or in-laws because of these images but were just too pretty not to get for someone else).

Every saree she showed me ever so patiently turned out to be more beautiful than the other, and I was really pampered with so many choices. Well, but sarees are sarees, they will always be beautiful in some way, weren't they? What I actually want to share then is about what I believe makes Apsaras Fashion special.

I always feel that what a business really is about is or are the people behind it. When we started our humble ' Al-Barakah Abayas' business, AZ and I felt the business must reflect our values in life, and we will do our best to upkeep them.

Today, when I think of Apsaras Fashions, I think of Rathai, and her kind-hearted nature and demeanour. The patience she carries in her, and the sense of calm she always exuberates. Always, and I mean it.

I have my memories from school days to back me up. Rathai, in our blue skirt and white blouse - school uniform, holding hands with me as we both were among the first in class queue. We both were among the shortest in class , had two trademark plaits, and were probably among the most timid too. This was years ago (oh my!) in our first year at Primary One. I remember my late grandmother telling me every time she fetched me from the school gate, that I must learn to take care of this friend because she could see that she was holding my hands so tightly as the teacher has instructed till we meet our family members at the school's entrance. Now, I sometimes recall that image. Rathai is always the friend with whom I am able to reconnect even when we may have not met for many years!

Talking about grandmothers… like me, Rathai has been very close to her Grandmum too (her grandmum passed away very recently). I think we both have this thing about lovable grandmothers. And I found it especially sweet that Rathai gave some of her first saree arrivals to the sweet grandmums in our neighbourhood. She did not tell me this though, I just learnt it from the folks who live among us. Way to go, my dear!

(And for Muslim sisters, Rathai is sure to be sensitive to aspects of religion as she has clearly made a mental note on image prints. )

So, for sisters who live near us, you can be assured of a comfy shopping experience, and for others who are online shoppers, making purchases at Apsaras Fashions will be definitely make you a happy shopper. Well, Deepavali is just round the corner right?